A pause tool made for a very human moment
Should I Text My Ex? is a small, independent resource for people who want to slow down before reopening contact with a former partner.
Who publishes this site
This site is published by Alnto Tsekou. It is an independent informational project, not a therapy practice, crisis service, law firm, or relationship-coaching business. The contact form is the site’s public route for questions, corrections, and feedback.
Why it exists
When emotions are high, the internet often offers two unhelpful extremes: a confident answer about what another person feels, or an endless stream of generic advice. This site takes a more modest approach. Its tools are designed to create a pause, clarify a purpose, and encourage respect for safety and boundaries.
What we do—and do not—claim
We do not claim to predict whether someone will reply, reconcile, or feel a certain way. The Pause Check-In is not a diagnostic assessment. The zodiac feature is clearly marked as entertainment. Guides are written for general education and reflection; they are not individual professional advice.
How content is created
Articles begin with a practical reader question, then are structured around actionable reflection exercises, reputable support resources, and clear limits. Editorial assistance tools may be used in drafting or organisation, but the site does not present generated text as a clinical source or a substitute for human expertise. Factual claims are reviewed for wording and linked sources before publication. Readers can report an error using the contact form.
Our standards
- We avoid claims of guaranteed outcomes, clinical diagnosis, or “mind-reading” another person.
- We separate entertainment content from real-world decision support.
- We identify the site’s publisher and maintain a correction route.
- We link to specialist support services when safety or urgent distress may be relevant.
- We update dates only when a page has meaningfully changed.
Read the full editorial policy and sources and support page.